Rob Sellen's snippets! - Filed under 'relationships'

Relationships... um... well...

No relationship is perfect, we all know that, if they were we would have the bloody things lol... but I am quite saddened sometimes by how many of my facebook friends, most of whom are real friends, have such different issues.

I remind myself at times it's good to be single lol :o)

Not that I know much so about relationships really lol.. enough I think!

No two relationships are ever the exact same ... no matter what anyone says, although some say there are "types" of relationships and I agree with that. Still it is surprising how easy and readily some make the same mistakes over and over again.

A fair few are friends who just want to mend their relationships, I hope they do too and more so when so many split ups are over the most trivial things, not all, far from it but alot of them.

Sad to say, there are too many mind games and pissing about in relationships for my liking and although I miss some sides of it, that crap side I certainly don't.

One thing I see that I know for a fact will never make you happy is to keep jumping from one relationship to another!

Relationships are the best you when you already know each other and are good together ... why you go to that point after all ain't it! ;o)

That is why it's so "comfortable" to be with an ex again rather than "get out there and check the talent" ... looking for something else you know nothing of.

Not that it's always good to be back with an ex, time changes that but the best time is right after you split, if you split, because there is still "something" there worth fighting for most times.

Single life after all that "something" fazes out is good... no hassle... ;o)

But do you really want to let that happen without at least trying to mend what was good if it's worth doing?

If its gone.. get over it, you will do, we all do, we have to.

This post is no way aimed at any person in particular ... if it helps great, if not..sorry. ;o)